Sex life is so dead, it needs it's own graveyard just to bury it? I've posted in other threads about how My boyfriend had just reciently lost a family member and how hard it has been...

But, another thing I am having difficulty with is our lack of intimacy... in the first few weeks of us being together we were making love sometimes 4 times a day. Now, I'm lucky if I can even get him alone in the bedroom... It's been a month since we last had sex and quite honestly, I am the one that is watching the porn and masterbating.

I know how even the idea of cheating on a partner can really kill desire, but I was honest about it and it never came to pass. We have 4 dogs and it always seems like he is choosing them over me.

What should I do or say?